FAQs
What is a Marriage Intensive?
Unlike traditional couples therapy, which takes place in weekly sessions, a Marriage Intensive is a focused, immersive experience over 2-4 days. This concentrated approach allows couples to dive deeper into their relationship dynamics, address core issues more effectively, and make meaningful progress in a shorter time.
What’s included in the cost of the Intensive?
- Pre-Intensive: You’ll receive detailed information and have the opportunity to connect with Hollis or Dave for any initial questions. You’ll also complete a comprehensive three-part assessment covering personal backgrounds, relationship dynamics, and current challenges.
- During the Intensive: Hollis and Dave dedicate 10-12 hours per day to working with you. This includes strategic planning in the morning prior to the sessions, and the evenings after.
- Post-Intensive: See below for information regarding follow-up sessions to support continued progress.
Is there support after the Intensive?
Yes. We offer follow-up options to help reinforce the skills learned during your Marriage Intensive:
- Two-Day Intensive: A follow-up session (2 or 4 hours) is available as an add-on.
- Three-Day Intensive: This format includes 2.5 days of sessions, followed by a 4-hour follow-up session 4-6 weeks later.
- Ongoing Support: If desired, Hollis and Dave may be available for once a month follow-up sessions (2 or 4 hours) to further strengthen your progress.
- Collaboration with Your Therapist: If you have an ongoing licensed marriage therapist, we can provide them with a summary of your Intensive and preparation assessments with a signed release of information.
Does Insurance Cover the Intensive?
Health Insurance typically does not cover the Intensive model. It may be possible to get coverage for up to two sessions per-day per-person and a portion of the assessment package. We can provide a Superbill which you can submit to your health insurance provider.
Do Hollis and Dave both participate the whole time?
Yes, both are actively involved throughout. offering 6+ hours of direct counseling daily, plus additional hours for preparation and strategy.
Are there benefits in working with a married couple?
Certainly. Our male-female therapist dynamic brings diverse insights and enhances the therapeutic process. Our clients often remark on the powerful impact of this approach.
Our relationship is non-traditional—is that okay?
Absolutely. We work with all couples in committed relationships.
Is the Intensive affiliated with any religion?
No. We welcome couples from all religious backgrounds.
Do you spend much time going over the couple’s background in the Intensive?
No, we begin immediately with action plans. Prior to the Intensive, you complete extensive personal history and assessments, allowing us to strategize effectively from the start.
Where is the Intensive held?
Our primary location is in Sandy, Oregon, the Gateway to Mt. Hood. Alternatively, for some packages, we can arrange to meet at a location of your choice. Please inquire about pricing for this option.
What’s your success rate with the Intensives?
Success varies by couple and their goals. Our approach has led to many forms of success, from improved communication to amicable separations.
Is it possible to talk with couples who’ve done this?
Our client relationships are confidential, and we do not solicit feedback for marketing purposes.
Are there any situations not appropriate for an Intensive?
Yes. If your situation involves domestic violence, substance abuse, affairs, chronic mental illness, or harmful thoughts, please discuss with us before scheduling.
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